一、任何时候，抱怨只是证明你的能力不行，并不代表困难和问题不可以存在。抱怨其实是世上最不值钱的废话；爱到最后，不是皆大欢喜就是事与愿违，像我在怀念你，而你在忘记我，越到后面你越会发现这些都是正常的现象，你自己长情而已，你并没有任何权利要求别人也跟你一样长情。At any time, complaining just proves that your ability is not good, does not mean that difficulties and problems can not exist. Complaint is actually the most worthless nonsense in the world; in the end, love is either joyful or contrary, as I miss you, and you forget me, the later you will find that these are normal phenomena, your own long feelings, you do not have any claim that others will be as long as you. & lt; br /& gt;
二、 我们只考虑分开对彼此都好，从来没有想过，如果在一起，对两个人有多好。这句话最适合对挣扎中的人说。全世界每天都在错过，全世界每天都在相遇，如果可以把所有运气都给你。那你会遇到这样一个人，一路上所有的磕磕绊绊，都是为了一起欣赏这世界全部的漂亮。We only consider that separation is good for each other, never thought how good it would be for two people if we were together. This sentence is most suitable for those who are struggling. Every day the world misses, every day the world meets, if you can give all your luck. Then you will meet such a person, all the stumbling and stumbling along the way, is to appreciate the beauty of the whole world together.
三、有时我想让自己直接出现意外，终此一生。所以我常常一边过马路，一边想着：如果我真的出现意外，你大概会一辈子记得我。因为：这样的人生对我来说只有一次，而这样的爱情对你来说，也不会再有更多。Sometimes I want to let myself have an accident directly, for the rest of my life. So I often cross the street thinking: If I do have an accident, you will probably remember me all your life. Because: such a life for me only once, and such love for you, there will be no more.
四、有多少爱情，信誓旦旦地开始，却匆匆忙忙地结束，谁敢保证，一次遇见就是一生，一次牵手就是一世；故事有开头，便会有结尾，开头人人都能猜得到，但结局往往难以预料。How many love begins with a promise, but ends in a hurry. Who can guarantee that one encounter is a lifetime and one hand in hand is a lifetime. If a story has a beginning, it will have an end. Everyone can guess the beginning, but the end is often unpredictable.
五、如果有一天，你开始后悔放弃我，请记得，我从未想过用离开的方式教会你如何去珍惜。什么都不说，不代表我什么都不懂。有一种忍让，就叫沉默。每一个生命，都会历经酸甜苦辣的生活，历经岁月里，我们总会磕磕碰碰，摔的遍体鳞伤，我们总会抱怨上天的不公，总会怨恨社会的黑暗，但总会站起身，忘掉自己所抱怨所怨恨的话语，继续往前走去。If one day, you begin to regret giving up me, please remember, I never thought of leaving to teach you how to cherish. Just because I don"t say anything doesn"t mean I don"t know anything. There is a kind of tolerance, called silence. Every life will go through the bitter and bitter life. Over the years, we will bump and bump and fall all over the body. We will always complain about the injustice of heaven and the darkness of society. But we will always stand up and forget the words we complain about and continue to move forward.
六、 事不能拖，话不能多，人不能作。与你无关的事，别问，别想，别说。有时觉得“如约而至”是个多么美好的词。等得很苦，却从不辜负。人生短暂，不要让自己活得太累，挤不进的世界，不要硬挤，难为了别人，作贱了自己；做不来的事情，不要硬做，换种思路，也许会事半功倍；拿不来的东西，不要硬拿，即使暂时得到，也会失去。Things can"t be delayed, words can"t be much, people can"t do it. Don"t ask, don"t think, don"t say anything that has nothing to do with you. Sometimes I think it"s such a beautiful word to "come as promised". It"s hard to wait, but it never fails. Life is short, don"t let yourself live too tired, squeeze into the world, don"t squeeze hard, hard for others, do cheap themselves; do not do things that can"t be done, don"t do them hard, change the way of thinking, maybe twice the result with half the effort; don"t take things that you can"t get, even if you get them temporarily, you will lose them.
七、人和人之间的友爱，并不在于是否是亲戚。是的，小时候，我们常常把亲戚这两字看得多么美好和重要。一旦长大成人，开始独立生活，我们便很快知道，亲戚关系常常是庸俗的；互相设法沾光，沾不上光就翻白眼；甚至你生活中最大的困难也常常是亲戚们造成的；生活同样会告诉你，亲戚往往不如朋友对你真诚相见。The friendship between people does not depend on whether they are relatives or not. Yes, when we were young, we used to think of relatives as beautiful and important words. Once we grow up and start living independently, we will soon know that relatives are often vulgar; try to smudge each other and turn your eyes white when you can"t get the light; even the greatest difficulties in your life are often caused by relatives; life will also tell you that relatives are often less likely to meet you sincerely than friends.
八、 一声，我懂你，胜过千言万语，润了心，润了情，润了眼。越长大对一些事情就越懒得解释，不是怕麻烦，而是知道很多事情解释不来。很多人到最后落得个分道扬镳，有时觉得可惜，有时觉得无法避免。这世上一定有你的同类，但一定不会多。总有人能听到你沉默背后的呼喊，愿有人能懂你的欲言又止。早安！I understand you, more than a thousand words, moisten the heart, moisten the feelings, moisten the eyes. The older you grow up, the more lazy you will be to explain something, not to be afraid of trouble, but to know that many things cannot be explained. Many people eventually split up, sometimes feeling regrettable and sometimes unavoidable. There must be your kind in the world, but there won"t be many. Someone can always hear the cry behind your silence. May someone understand what you want to say and stop. Good morning!
九、朋友不一定要门当户对，但一定要同舟共济；不一定要形影不离，但一定要惺惺相惜；不一定要锦上添花，但一定要雪中送炭；不一定要天天见面，但一定要放在心里。Friends don"t necessarily have to be right, but they have to work together; they don"t have to be inseparable, but they have to cherish each other; they don"t have to add flowers to the cake, but they have to send charcoal in the snow; they don"t have to meet every day, but they have to keep in mind.
十、人生路寂寞苦闷，大家都渴望友谊调剂，但得一知己已足矣，实不必四处拉夫，以壮声势。谈得来的便是朋友，何用使到高压与手段，甚至威逼利诱，你不喜欢我，不要紧，我也没有爱上你，友谊应该一如爱情，讲缘法，得来全不费工夫。Life is lonely and depressed. Everyone is eager for friendship, but it"s enough to have a confidant. There"s no need to go around to be strong. Talk about friends, how to use pressure and means, or even coercion and seduction, you do not like me, it does not matter, I have not fallen in love with you, friendship should be like love, say fate, can come without any effort.
十一、结婚是两个家庭的事，如果父母不同意你们在一起，别觉得父母不理解你。这世界上骗孩子的父母很少，但骗人的爱情很多。没有一段感情是始终如一永恒不变的，也不会有多少朋友会一直守在你身边。Marriage is a matter of two families. If parents don"t agree with you, don"t think parents don"t understand you. There are few deceptive parents in the world, but there are many deceptive love. No relationship lasts forever, and there won"t be many friends around you.
十二、你应该保有内心世界的安宁。那么无论外界如何嘈杂，你都有一个清静的地方。如果可以，我只要一杯清水，一片面包，一枝花，如果再奢侈一些，我希望水是你倒的，面包是你切的，花是你送的。You should keep peace in your heart. So no matter how noisy the outside world is, you have a quiet place. If I can, I just need a glass of water, a piece of bread, a flower. If I have more luxury, I hope the water is poured by you, the bread is cut by you, and the flowers are sent by you.
十三、允许别人和自己不一样，允许自己和别人不一样。理解了前半句，就能做到包容。理解了后半句，就敢活出自我。我多么希望，有一个门口，早晨，阳光照在草上。我们站着，扶着自己的门窗，门很低，但太阳是明亮的。草在结它的种子，风在摇它的叶子，我们站着，不说话，就十分美好。Allow others to be different from themselves, and allow themselves to be different from others. If you understand the first half of the sentence, you can be tolerant. Understanding the second half of the sentence, we dare to live out ourselves. How I wish there was a door, and in the morning, the sun was shining on the grass. We stood, holding our doors and windows. The doors were low, but the sun was bright. Grass is bearing its seeds, the wind is shaking its leaves, we stand, do not speak, it is very beautiful.
十四、我真的很喜欢你，不信你有空来趟我的梦里，梦里边全部都是你，结婚的时候也给我一张请帖吧。你开心的，难过的，温柔的，生气的样子。我都看过，最后我就想看看你终于不属于我的样子。I really like you. I don"t believe you have time to come to my dream. It"s all about you. Please give me an invitation when you get married. You look happy, sad, gentle and angry. I"ve seen it all, and finally I want to see how you don"t belong to me.
十五、把努力当成一种习惯，而不是三分钟热度。坚持才是王道，每一个你羡慕的收获，都是别人努力用心拼来的，你可以抱怨，也可以无视，但记住，不努力，连认输的资格都没有！Make effort a habit, not a three-minute fever. Persistence is the kingdom. Every achievement you envy is earned by others. You can complain or ignore it. But remember, if you don"t work hard, you won"t even be qualified to admit defeat.
十六、在这个世界上，你就是你，你痛，痛你自己，你累，累你自己，就算有人同情你，那又怎样，最后收拾残局的，还是要靠你自己。记住：有些人你可以期待，但不能依赖！In this world, you are you, you hurt, you hurt yourself, you tired, tired yourself, even if someone sympathizes with you, then what, finally, it is up to you to clean up the mess. Remember: Some people you can expect, but can"t rely on!
十七、这世界上大部分的失落，都是因为我们自己没成为更好的自己，却奢求着别人成为更好的别人。活在世上，我们都是独立的个体，痛苦难受都得自己承受。没人能真正理解你，石头没砸在他脚上，他永远体会不到有多疼。Most of the losses in the world are due to the fact that we have not become a better self, but we are longing for others to become better ones. Living in the world, we are all independent individuals, suffering has to bear their own. Nobody really understands you. The stone didn"t hit his foot. He never realized how much pain it was.
十八、每天告诉自己一次：我真的很不错。要铭记在心：每天都是一年中最美好的一天。路的尽头，仍然是路，只要你愿意走。记住最好的，不一定是最合适的；最合适的，才是真正最好的。无论有多困难，都坚强地抬头挺胸，告诉所有人，你并非他们想象的那样不堪一击！Tell yourself once a day: I"m really good. Keep in mind that every day is the best day of the year. The end of the road is still the road, as long as you are willing to go. Keep in mind that the best is not necessarily the best; the best is the real best. No matter how difficult it is, hold your head up and tell everyone that you are not as vulnerable as they think.
十九、原来，爱情是这样的。你会变得很轻贱，不管对方怎样对你，不管对方怎样看你，你也昂着头，迎上去。所有的自尊都是垃圾，爱一个人的时候，是不要自尊的。——《青藤之凉》Originally, love is like this. You will become very humble, no matter how the other side treats you, no matter how the other side looks at you, you also hold your head up and meet. All self-esteem is garbage. When you love someone, you should not have self-esteem. —— "Cool Ivy Leaves"
二十、得不到回应的热情，要懂得适可而止。不亏待每一份热情，不讨好任何的冷漠。当别人不需要你的时候你要学会自己走开，多一点自知之明少一点自作多情。If you can"t get the enthusiasm to respond, you should know how to stop it. Do not treat every enthusiasm, do not please any indifference. When other people don"t need you, you should learn to walk away by yourself, more self-knowledge and less self-affection.
