一、生活是自己的，你选择怎样的生活，就会成就怎样的你。与其抱怨这个世界不美好，不如用自己的努力，争取更多的美好和幸运。那些天真的，傻气的，努力的我，都在过去这条路上渐行渐远渐无声，但没关系，怎样的我 我都接受，只是无论怎样的我都无法停留。Life is your own. You will achieve what you choose to live. Instead of complaining about the bad world, we should strive for more good and luck with our own efforts. Those naive, silly, hard-working me, in the past on this road gradually fading silent, but it does not matter, what I accept, but I can not stay anyway.
二、每个人的人生里都会遇到一场措手不及的大雨，若你身陷雨中，愿有人为你撑伞；如果没有，也愿你有听雨的心情。我把爱尘封在心里，不愿让它冲破枷锁告诉你。我总以为是你生性凉薄以至于让我的等待遥遥无期。后来我才知道，这无关你生性何意。只是能让你展颜的人不是我而已。Everyone"s life will encounter a sudden heavy rain. If you are caught in the rain, I wish someone would hold an umbrella for you. If not, I wish you had the mood to listen to the rain. I keep the dust of love in my heart, and I don"t want it to break through the shackles to tell you. I always thought it was your cold nature that kept me waiting for a long time. Later I learned that it"s not about your nature. It"s just that I"m not the one who can make you look good.
三、 生活是根绳子，总是牵着我们的鼻子走。为了生活，我们忍让、退缩、扭曲甚至出卖自己。不要以为这是正常的，很多时候我们习惯的东西，就这样偷偷地改变着我们的性格。不是生活决定我们去做什么，而是我们做的事情决定了我们要过一种什么样的生活。你若把生活扛在肩上，它永远都是你的负荷。Life is a rope, always leading us by the nose. In order to live, we tolerate, shrink, distort and even sell ourselves. Don"t think it"s normal. Sometimes what we are used to changes our personality secretly. It"s not life that determines what we do, but what we do that determines what kind of life we want to live. If you carry life on your shoulders, it will always be your load.
四、屋檐空调管子滴着水滴，地上一滩水渍，邻居家小女孩双手掌心向天蒙着头顶，咿呀呀从那里跑过；棒棒糖的甜味是一边小脸嘟成一个小包子，都还觉得填不满的 ；你走或者不走，我停在那里，她使劲哭使劲哭；前面的哥哥跑得好快啊，能不能停下等等我？The eaves air-conditioning pipe dripping, a pool of water on the ground, neighborhood girls with palms to the sky, chirp and run from there; the sweet taste of lollipop is a small face, a bun, they are not satisfied with filling; you go or do not go, I stop there, she cried hard; the brother in front of me run so fast, can you stop waiting for me? & lt; br/>
五、我想用一整个青春的时间给你写一封信，用拙劣的文笔和幼稚的词语不分段落，没有主题把我的世界全写给你，最后发现除了标点符号全是自言自语。I want to write a letter to you all my youth. I want to write my world to you with clumsy writing and childish words, no paragraphs, no theme, and finally find that all except punctuation marks are self-talk.
六、你没能扔掉的东西，总有一天会成为压在你身上的包袱。今天是衣服，明天就有可能是个人，还有可能是你不愿意想起来的过去。要成为一个会扔掉垃圾的人，那样当你遇到一个让你觉得有负重感的人，你能少点痛苦。What you can"t throw away will become a burden on you one day. Today"s clothes, tomorrow may be a person, or may be the past you don"t want to recall. Be a person who throws away garbage, so that when you meet someone who makes you feel heavy, you will feel less pain.
七、你之所以会觉得难受，大概是因为你投入了大把时间和精力，到最后却没能得到你想要的东西，那种一瞬间被失落灌满的样子让你感到不值得。Maybe it"s because you put a lot of time and energy into it, but you don"t get what you want in the end. It"s not worth it to be filled with frustration in an instant.
八、该走的人迟早会走，与其费力勒紧手里的线，不如等风来的时候就放手。对生命而言，接纳才是最好的温柔，不论是接纳一个人的出现，还是接纳一个人的从此不见。Sooner or later, the person who should go will go. Instead of tightening the line in his hand, he should let go when the wind comes. For life, acceptance is the best tenderness, whether accepting a person"s appearance or accepting a person"s disappearance from now on.
九、说话，容易得罪人，入世，容易看是非，学会放下，学会沉淀自己，改变自己的心态，成长自己的宿命，每一个改变，都是灵魂的栽培。Speaking, easily offending people, accession to the WTO is easy to see right and wrong, learn to put down, learn to precipitate themselves, change their mindset, grow their destiny, every change is the cultivation of the soul.
十、不管是失恋还是失业，或者是人生处于低谷，都应该多去读书，把所有的情绪都转化为成长的动力。等更好的人、更好的机会出现时，你才能把握住，因为你准备好了。一个人最重要的投资，应该是自己，与其忙着去讨好别人，不如转过身投资自己。最终，你是怎样的人，就会吸引怎样的人。Whether it"s lovelorn or unemployed, or life is in a low ebb, we should read more books and turn all our emotions into the driving force of growth. When better people and better opportunities arise, you can seize them, because you are ready. One"s most important investment should be oneself. Instead of being busy trying to please others, one should turn around and invest in oneself. Ultimately, what kind of person you are will attract what kind of person you are.
十一、不管发生什么，都不要放弃，坚持走下去，肯定会有意想不到的风景。人生有两条路：一条用心走，叫做梦想；一条用脚走，叫做现实。我们常常为错过一些东西而感到惋惜，但其实，人生的玄妙，常常超出你的预料，无论什么时候，你都要相信，一切都是最好的安排。No matter what happens, don"t give up. Keep going, there will be unexpected scenery. There are two ways in life: one is to walk with one"s heart, which is called dream; the other is to walk with one"s feet, which is called reality. We often feel sorry for missing something, but in fact, the mystery of life often exceeds your expectations. Whenever you want to believe, everything is the best arrangement.
十二、我们这一生都在路上，没有哪一处可以永久停留，不管你是否情愿，都要在困顿中出发，在泥泞中跋涉，在艰辛中冲刺。别惧怕风雨，少了沐浴，何来风华？莫担心雷电，多了险阻，方有转折。有了挑战与压力，才会有突破与动因；有了寂静与孤独，才会有吟咏与思考。苦累又算什么，雨后见虹影，精彩奔波中。We"ve been on the road all our lives. No place can stay forever. Whether you like it or not, we have to start out in hardship, trudge in the mud, and sprint in hardship. Don"t be afraid of the wind and rain. If you don"t have a bath, where will you come from? Don"t worry about thunder and lightning. If there are more obstacles, there will be a turning point. With challenges and pressures, there will be breakthroughs and motivations; with silence and loneliness, there will be chanting and thinking. What is hard, rainbow shadow after rain, wonderful rush.
十三、也许你在年轻懵懂的时候谈过几场轰轰烈烈的恋爱，经历过各种分分合合，你觉得自己这辈子都爱够了，再也不想涉足感情半步。但缘分该来的时候还是会来，没有一点点防备，没有一丝丝顾虑，他们就这样出现在彼此的世界里。Maybe when you are young and ignorant, you have talked about several vigorous love affairs, experienced all kinds of divisions and closures, and you feel that you have loved enough in your life, and you don"t want to step into the emotional half step any more. But when fate should come, it will still come, without a bit of defense, without a trace of concern, so they appear in each other"s world.
十四、内心强大比什么都重要，你要照顾好自己；承认自己的平凡，但是努力向好的方向发展；可以平静面对生活，安然的听从自己内心的感受，不受其他影响，你可以迷茫，请不要虚度。每个人都有自己的难处，别人无法看透，也无法感同身受，把悲伤留给自己。Inner strength is more important than anything, you have to take good care of yourself; admit your ordinary, but strive to develop in a good direction; you can face life calmly, calmly listen to your inner feelings, free from other influences, you can be confused, please do not waste. Everyone has his own difficulties, others can not see through, nor can they feel the same, leaving sadness to himself.
十五、感情就是这样，我失望到顶点后，就再不会回头了。不是不勇敢，也不是怕受伤，只是觉得自己不该为了一个错的你，再继续做错的决定。毕竟，你有你的执着，我也有我的洒脱。Emotion is like this. When I get to the top of my disappointment, I will never look back. It"s not that you are not brave or afraid of being hurt, but that you shouldn"t continue making wrong decisions for the sake of a wrong person. After all, you have your persistence, I also have my free and easy.
十六、再者，择友很重要。他们会潜移默化地影响着你对生活的态度和看世界的角度。应与阳光舞，和正气行。乐者为友，多微笑；智者为友，不迷茫；睿者为友，多机敏；谦者为友，不落后。借人之智，完善自己；学最好他人，做最好自己。Besides, it"s important to choose friends. They will imperceptibly influence your attitude towards life and your perspective on the world. Should dance with the sunshine, and be upright. Music is a friend, more smiles; wise is a friend, not confused; wise is a friend, more alert; modest is a friend, not backward. Use one"s wisdom to perfect oneself; learn the best from others and be the best from oneself.
十七、美好爱情就是一幅山水画，洗去铅华雕饰，留下清新自然；就像一首深情的歌，宛转悠扬，轻吟浅唱；就是一阵和煦的风，吹去朔雪纷飞，带来春光无限。Beautiful love is a landscape painting, wash away the lead carvings, leave fresh and natural; like a love song, gentle melodious, light singing; is a warm wind, blowing snow, bringing infinite spring.
