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Hello I"m Emma from mmmEnglish!
This video is perfect for intermediate to advanced English learners who want to improve their skills in English conversations.
嗨，我是 Emma，欢迎来到英语频道。这个视频对于想要提升自己的英语对话技巧的中级到高级英语学习者来说是非常完美的。
So I"m gonna share the exact phrases and expressions that you need to do things in English conversations like when you want to interrupt someone or you want to change the topic.
Maybe when you need to end a conversation and lots of others as well.
所以我要分享一些你们在英语对话中用得到的短语和表达，比如说当你想要打断某个人或者是想要改变话题的时候。可能是当你需要结束一个对话的时候，还有很多其他的情况。
In fact, I"m sharing fifty useful phrases that will help you in English conversations, all useful expressions that you need to improve your speaking skills and to help you maintain conversations for longer. So I hope you"re ready.
其实呢，我要给大家分享五十个能够在英语对话中帮助你们的很有用的短语，这些都是你们提升口语技能所需要的有用的表达，而且能够帮助你们保持对话持续进行。所以我希望你准备好了。
Let"s get into it! Now a lot can happen during a conversation.
让我们开始吧！在一个对话期间能发生很多事情。
Talking about the topic is one important part but to speak fluently and to speak with ease, you need to have a range of conversation tools up your sleeve because there are lots of other shifts and changes that happen during a conversation depending on who you"re talking to, what"s going on around you and whether or not you"re interested or not.
Right now we"re going to focus on the tools that you need to move around in your conversations easily and naturally.
谈论某个话题是很重要的一部分，但是要说得流利还轻松的话，你需要事先准备好很多对话中用得到的工具，因为在对话中还有很多其他的转换啊，改变啊，这取决于你在和谁说话，你身边发生了什么，以及你是不是感兴趣。现在呢我们要关注那些在对话中游刃有余所需要的工具啦。
Alright and if you make it through to the very end of this video, I"m gonna share some advanced expressions to help you talk about controversial topics, to help you express your ideas when you know that not everyone"s gonna agree with you right and you want to prepare them for that.
Now if that sounds a little too intense for you and maybe you want to start by focusing on simpler conversation strategies about just starting a conversation with someone, then I recommend that you first watch this lesson up here.
好的，如果你坚持到了视频结束的话，我会分享一些高级的表达帮助你们谈论有争议的话题的表达，以及当你知道没有人会同意你，你想让他们做好准备所需要的表达。如果那听起来对你而言有点点难度的话，如果你想要从简单的对话策略开始，就是开启和某个人的对话的话，那我推荐你先看看这里的课程。
So conversations are always two ways, right? That"s what makes a conversation.
对话总是有两方，对吧？那才是一个对话。
So as you give your opinion or you share something, it"s always nice to invite the other person"s opinion right? And this is a really important strategy to help you extend your conversations, asking for other people"s opinions.
当你说出自己的观点或者是分享什么的时候，让别人分享自己的意见总是很好的，对吧？这是一个非常重要的策略帮助你延伸你的对话，寻求别人的意见。
So what do you say when you"re asking for other people"s opinions? Well quite simply, you could ask "Do you agree?"
当你询问其他的人的意见的时候，你要说什么呢？非常简单，你可以问“你同意吗？”
Very basic. It"s quite closed that question, so what about if you opened up that question to get a more interesting answer? What do you think about that?
非常简单。这是个封闭式问题，那如果你把这个问题开放一点点，来获得更加有趣的回答，该怎么办呢？你觉得那怎么样？
What"s your opinion? Or how do you feel about it?
你的意见是什么？或者是你感觉怎么样？
If you want to make it a little more polite, you might say. I"d like to hear your thoughts on that.
如果你想要说的更加礼貌一点的话，你可以说。我想听听你对此的意见。
Or I"m interested to hear your opinion about this. And more formally, maybe if you were at a meeting at work, you know you might ask "Would you like to add anything?"
或者是我很想听听你对此的想法。更加正式的话，或许你在工作的会议场合，你可以问：“你有什么想补充吗？”
And this is just, you know, a nice sort of polite way of inviting other people into the conversation to share their opinion. So what about what to say when you want to interrupt?
这就是很好地更加礼貌的方式邀请别人加入对话，分享自己的意见。当你想要打断的时候，你该怎么说呢？
When someone else is talking and you want to interrupt them, well there are definitely ways to do it rudely but of course, there are many ways to do it politely as well. Sometimes you have to interrupt in conversations.
当其他人在说话，你想打断他们的时候，要粗鲁地打断的话，是有很多种方式的，但是当然了，要礼貌地打断的话，也有很多方法呢。有时候你需要在对话中打断别人。
So of course, you could say "Sorry". "Excuse me" is a little more polite and then you can actually lead straight on with your different idea or your opinion there.
当然了，你可以说“不好意思”。“打扰了”更加礼貌一点，然后你就可以直接引到你不同的意见或者是想法上。
Sorry I thought our meeting was on Thursday next week not Wednesday. You know it"s just a little brief interjection to help you share a different opinion or a different thought.
不好意思，我觉得我们的会议是在下周四而不是下周三。这是一个小小的插话，帮助你分享不同的意见或者是不同的想法。
Now you can informally interrupt someone to add an idea to a conversation by saying "Do you mind if I add to that?" or "Can I jump in here?" and that literally means can I jump into the conversation right now at this point. I"ve got something to share.
你可以通过说“你介意我说几句吗？”或者是“我能说几句吗？”来非正式地打断某人，从而给对话增加新的想法，这两句话的意思是我可不可以现在加入对话。我有东西要分享。
I want to say it. Now there are some more polite ways to express this as well.
我想要说一说。也有其他的礼貌地表示表达这个意思。
You might say "Sorry to interrupt but I"ve got something to say". Or "Sorry for interrupting"
你可以说：“不好意思打算你，但是我有话要说。”或者是：“不好意思打断你了。”
Now there"s not a lot of difference between those two.
I would just say that "Sorry to interrupt" is probably used more when you"re speaking directly to the person that you"re interrupting and then maybe if you"re stepping into a room full of people talking, a meeting room or something like that, then you might say "Sorry for interrupting, I just needed to share something with you."
这两个没什么区别。我会说“不好意思打扰了”一般是用在当你在和你要打断的那个人直接对话的时候，如果你走进了一个房间，里面都是人在说话，可能是间会议室的话，那你可以说“不好意思打扰了，我有些事情想和大家分享。”
Now to go even more formal than that, perhaps if you"re working in a hotel and you need to interrupt a customer, you might say "Sorry, may I interrupt you for just a moment?" Or "If I may interrupt you for a minute, I"d like to share something with you."
要说的更加正式的话，可能是你在酒店工作，你需要打断一个顾客，你可以说：“不好意思，我可以稍微打断一下你吗？”或者是“我是不是暂时打断你一下你，我有想法想和你分享。”
Oh actually, if you don"t mind me interrupting for a moment, I"d love to tell you a little bit about The Ladies" Project.
If you"re a woman wanting to develop the confident English speaking version of yourself that"s just as expressive, as intelligent and interesting as you are in your own language, then you should definitely check out The Ladies" Project.
哦其实呢，如果你们不介意我稍微打断一下的话，我想和大家聊聊 The Ladies" Project。如果你是一名想要提升说英语的自信心的女性的话，想让自己变得和说自己的母语一样善于表达、聪明有趣的话，那你绝对应该看一看 The Ladies" Project。
It"s a lively online community that helps women around the world to meet and practise speaking English together.?We have real conversations about the things in life that are most important.
这是个超棒的线上社群，帮助世界各地的女性相遇，并且一起练习英语。我们有关于生活中最重要的事物的对话。
We can help you to quickly find reliable speaking partners, offer you guidance from native teachers, build your conversation skills and overcome your fears and your frustrations about speaking English fluently.
So if you want to keep improving your English conversation skills or maybe you"re looking for a way to maintain the skills that you"ve already developed, then I hope you"ll come and check it out.
我们可以帮助你更快地找到可靠的语伴，给予你来自母语者老师的指导，增强你的对话技巧，克服你对于流利说英语的恐惧和失望。所以如果你想要持续提升你的英语对话技巧，或者是你正在寻找保持你已经学到的技能的方法的话，那我希望大家来看一看。
We"re accepting new members right now but only for another week. So to find out more click the link in the description below.
我们现在正在将接收新的成员，但是还剩一周时间了。想要了解更多的话，看一下描述区下方的链接吧。
Okay. Where was I? That was a good example of what to say when you"ve gone off topic.
好的，说到哪里了？当你已经跑题，要说点什么的话，那是个很好的例子。
If you go off topic, it means that you started talking about something, so for example apples, but while you were talking you started to talk about something else, you know, maybe you got distracted or you got excited and went off telling a different story.
Or even the other person that you"re talking to has gone off topic and you"re thinking "How on earth did we end up talking about potatoes?"
如果你已经离题的话，比如说你们刚开始的时候在讨论某个东西，比如说苹果，但是当你们正在谈论的时候，你开始说一些其他的事情，可能你分心了，或者是很激动，就开始说另外一件事情了。或者甚至是和你对话的其他人离题了，你在想“我们什么时候才能结束讨论土豆呢？”
You"ve got to get your conversation back on track right? And it really is just that simple shift in the conversation.
你得让对话回到正常的轨道，对吧？就是在对话中非常简单地转换一下。
So here"s how to do it. So anyway, getting back to my story. . .
下面是你该怎么做。不管怎么滴，回到我想说的……
As I was saying. . . Where was I?
正如我所说……说到哪里了来着？
Ah yes. . . You can also combine some of these expressions together.
啊，是的……你也可以把这些表达结合一下。
So anyway, where were we? Ah yes. . . You were talking about apples!
不管怎么说，我们说到哪里了来着？啊是的……你在说苹果！
What to say when you think you understood but you need to double-check.
These are really important expressions to learn, to help you as you"re listening so that you can feel more confident about your answers, you know, when you"re answering someone else"s question, this is just a little check to make sure you"re answering it accurately.
当你觉得你理解了，但是你需要再检查一下的话，要说什么呢？这些都是非常重要的表达需要学习，帮助你更好地倾听，这样你就会对你的答案感到更加有信心，当你回答某个人的问题的时候，用来检查确定一下你回答的是正确的。
So if you didn"t quite hear perfectly, you could say "So what you"re asking is. . ." and then repeat back what you heard. So, what you want to know is. . . and then repeat.
如果你没有完全听清楚的话，你可以说：“所以你问的是……”，然后再说一遍你听到了什么。所以，你想知道的是……然后再说一遍。
Do you mean? And then paraphrase what you heard or you could say "In other words, what you"re saying is. . ." and this is a really natural part of conversation.
你的意思是？然后复述一下你的听到的，或者是你可以说“换句话说，你说的是……”，这是对话中非常自然的一部分。
Native speakers are not gonna care if you ask them to confirm what they said because it just makes it much easier to continue the conversation, right?
If you"re working in customer service, maybe at a hotel or at a restaurant or something like that then using the verb "confirm" is a little more formal.
如果你让他们确认一下自己说了什么的话，母语者其实并不会在意的，因为这会让对话更容易进行，对吧？如果你从事顾客服务工作的话，可能在酒店里或者是餐馆这种地方，那就使用“confirm”这个单词吧，这会更加正式的。
You might say "I"d like to confirm what you said" or "Excuse me, can I just confirm that/what you said". Naturally, we agree and we disagree with people all of the time right and there are so many different ways to do this in English.
你可以说“我想和您确认一下您说的话”或者是“不好意思，我可以确认一下你说的吗”。当然，我们总是会同意别人说的话，或者是不同意别人说的话，而在英语中有很多不同的方式可以这么做。
Agreeing is pretty simple right, you can just say "Yes! Absolutely!" to say that you agree. I completely agree with you!
同意是很简单的，你可以说“是的！当然了！”来表示你同意。我完全同意！
And we have this really fantastic expression which is "I couldn"t agree more". I couldn"t possibly agree more.
我们有一个非常棒的表达，它就是“我不能同意更多了。”我不能同意更多了。
I really strongly agree with you. But what to say to somewhat disagree?
我超级同意你说的话。但是不同意该怎么说呢？
Now all of these examples are ways to say that you accept some of the ideas that the other person has shared but you don"t completely agree with them. Okay so you might say "I see what you mean but. . ." and then express, you know, a different opinion.
这些例子都是来表达你接受其他人分享的想法的，但是你并不是完全接受他们。好的，所以你可以说“我知道你是什么意思，但是……”，然后表达你的不同的意见。
I understand your point of view but. . . I can see where you"re coming from but. . .
我理解你的观点，但是……我理解你说的是什么，但是……
I agree with you up to a point, however. . . I"ve got a different opinion.
我部分地同意你，但是……我有一个不同的意见。
So then what to say when you disagree completely? I don"t feel the same way.
那该怎么说你完全不同意呢？我并不觉得呢。
Actually, I don"t quite agree or I disagree. I"m afraid I don"t agree with you on that or about that.
其实，我其实不同意，或者是我不同意。恐怕我在那个问题上和你意见不一样。
Now this is quite an interesting English expression. "I"m afraid."
这是个很有趣的英文表达。“我恐怕。”
We use it when we"re trying to make a statement more polite not just to say that we"re worried or we"re scared. I"m afraid I can"t help you.
当我们想要使一个表达更加礼貌的话，我们会使用它，并不是说我们很担心或者是很害怕。恐怕我没办法帮助你。
I"m afraid we"ve run out of sausages. So it"s just a way of making those statements a little more polite and you can do the same thing when you"re disagreeing.
恐怕我们没有香肠了。所以这是一个让这些陈述更加礼貌的方式，当你不同意的时候也可以这么说。
I"m afraid I don"t agree with you. So to be quite formal when you disagree, then try to add a word like "respectfully".
恐怕我没办法同意你。当你不同意的时候，要表达得更加正式一点的话，那就试着加一个单词“礼貌地说”。
Respectfully, I have to disagree. And then if you feel like your conversation isn"t going anywhere maybe there"s a bit of tension, people are getting frustrated and annoyed and you want to change the topic.
礼貌地说，我不同意。如果你感觉你的对话并没有什么实际进展，可能有点紧张，大家都很沮丧恼怒，你想要改变一下话题。
Well, we"ll have to agree to disagree then. It"s a way to end the discussion, especially when it"s getting a little heated and change the topic a little.
好的，我们必须暂时搁置争议。这是结束对话的一种方式，尤其是当对话有点激烈，要改变一下话题的话。
Now of course in English, you can be quite rude with your body language when you"re disagreeing with someone. So in formal situations or when you want to be really polite, try to be aware of what your body is doing.
当然了在英语中，你在不同意某人的时候，身体语言可以很粗暴。在正式的情况下或者是当你想表现得有礼貌的话，那就要注意一下你的身体语言吧。
So avoid shaking your head or rolling your eyes or sighing. You know? Unless you really want that other person to see that you"re frustrated or you"re annoyed with them.
不要摇头，不要翻白眼，或者是叹气。你知道吗？除非你真的想要理你个一个人知道你很难过或者是很生气的话。
Speaking of changing the topic, what do you say when you want to do that in English? What to say to change the topic?
说到改变话题，当你要用英语改变话题的话，你要说什么呢？要说什么来改变话题呢？
Now this is useful. You might want to change the topic for a few different reasons.
这是非常有用的。你可能因为不同的原因想要改变话题。
It could be as simple as you"ve run out of things to say about the topic. So instead of ending the conversation, you can simply change the topic and change direction.
可能非常简单，因为你把关于这个话题的话都给说完了。所以除了结束对话之外，你可以改变话题，改变方向。
That reminds me. . . Or speaking about or speaking of that. . .
这提醒了我……或者是说到……
You know this is a really useful expression or a way of you know kind of linking two ideas in a conversation. Speaking about your holiday to Greece, did I tell you that I"ve got a trip planned later in the year?
这是个非常有用的表达，或者是将对话中的两个想法给连接起来的方式。说到你去希腊的假期，我有没有告诉你我今年下半年有计划旅行吗？
But maybe you just want to introduce something completely different. So then you could try "Oh, by the way, did I tell you about this?"
但是可能是你想要介绍完全不一样的东西。然后你可以试一下“哦，顺便说一下，我有告诉你吗？”
Or "Oh, while I remember. . ." Or "Before I forget I"ve got something I want to say."
或者是“哦，我记得……”或者是“在我忘记之前，我有话想说。”
This has nothing to do with what we"re talking about but I"ve got to share it anyway. I know this is completely changing the topic but I"ve got to tell you.
这和当前说的话没什么关系，但我还是想分享一下。我知道这会完全改变话题，但是我得告诉你。
So what to say when you"re talking about a controversial topic? Now this is more advanced conversation skills but maybe you want to talk about politics, religion, social issues.
那当你说一个有争议的话题的时候要说什么呢？这是更加高级的对话技巧，但是可能你想要谈论一下政治啊，宗教啊，社会问题啊。
I quite enjoy learning about these topics and having discussions about these things but I know that my views will not always be the same as everyone else"s. But that doesn"t mean that you need to avoid it, right?
我很喜欢谈论这些话题，就这些事情进行讨论，但是我知道我的观点并不总是和其他人是一样的。但是那并不意味着你需要避免去说，对吧？
You just need a few tools and a few tips to help you keep the conversation open and positive. So when you"re introducing an idea that you feel like not everyone"s going to agree with then you could try saying "I know not everyone agrees with me" but this is what I think.
你只是需要一些工具和技巧来帮助你让这个对话保持开放和积极。所以当你介绍一个你觉得并不是所有人都会同意的观点的时候，那你可以试着说“我知道并不是所有人都同意我”，但是这是我的想法。
Or I know this is a contentious issue. Contentious.
或者是我知道这是一个有争议的话题。有争议的。
And then go in to explain. It might be an unpopular opinion but I strongly believe. . .
然后继续解释一下。可能是一个并不受人欢迎的观点，但是我非常相信……
I don"t see eye to eye with everyone on this matter, but I think it"s really important to discuss this. Whilst you may not agree with my views, I"m definitely interested in hearing yours.
我和其他人在这个问题上看法都不一样，但是我觉得这件事非常重要，我们需要讨论。尽管你们可能并不同意我的观点，但是我很想听听你们的想法。
I"m not trying to ruffle anyone"s feathers here. This is a fun little idiom to say I"m not trying to make anyone upset or angry, you know, I"m just sharing a different opinion.
我并不是故意在找茬。这是个很有趣的小谚语，说我其实并不是想要让任何人不开心或者是生气，我只是想要分享不同的观点。
I"m not intending to ruffle anyone"s feathers. What to say when you want to end a conversation?
我并不是要故意找茬。当你想要结束对话的时候，要说什么呢？
So having one of these simple expressions on hand will help you to politely end a conversation and move on. Right we don"t want to get stuck in a conversation.
手边有这些简单的表达能够帮助你礼貌地结束对话，然后继续。好的，我们并不想困在这个对话里。
Well, I"d best be off! It"s been great chatting. Anyway, I"d better get back to it.
好的，我要撤了！真是愉快的对话。不管怎么说，我还是回去吧。
Or I better get back to work. I"m so glad I ran into you.
或者是我还是回去工作吧。很开心遇见你。
It"s been great catching up. I"ll see you soon.
叙叙旧真不错。再见啦。
So there you have it! That was over fifty common phrases to help you have more advanced English conversations and help you to maintain those conversations even longer.
就这样啦！不只是五十条表达呢，可以帮助你们开展更加高级的英语对话，帮助你让对话更长地进行下去。
Now all of these tools are ones that native English speakers use all the time in conversations. So listen out for them in movies and podcasts.
这些工具都是英语母语者在对话中会使用的。可以在电影和播客中找找他们。
Try to hear them in context. Now definitely don"t try and learn all of them at once, okay not all fifty phrases at once but definitely choose a couple of them from each category and really start to get familiar with them and how to use them.
听听它们是如何在语境中使用的。当然了，不要去一下子都学会这五十个短语，但是一定要从每个类别里面选出来一些，然后熟悉一下它们，学着如何去使用。
You guys know that you can catch me over on Instagram and on Facebook and make sure you take a look at The Ladies" Project too, I"ve linked to it up here.
You can catch The Ladies" Project on Instagram as well and as always you can keep practising with me right now right there in that lesson.
大家都知道可以在Instagram，脸书上面找到我，一定要看一下 The Ladies" Project 哦，我把链接放在那里了。你们也可以在Instagram上面找到 The Ladies" Project ，你们可以在这节课程中和我一起练习。
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