有时候呀,爱上一个不该爱的人,就像逃了一堂不该逃的课一样,常常会让人觉得心里不安,也瞻前顾后。
Sometimes, falling in love with someone who shouldn"t be loved is like escaping from a class that shouldn"t. It often makes people feel uneasy and look forward.
有时候特别渴望倾诉,但是打好的字是打好了又删,删了又打,最后还是没有发出……过几天就自我消化了。
Sometimes I am very eager to talk, but the typed words are typed and deleted, deleted and typed, and in the end they are still not issued,I digest myself in a few days.
一个巴掌拍不响,好的状态是包容和迁就,就像幸福的生活状态都是相似的,而不幸的关系,各有各的不同。
A slap does not sound, the good state is tolerant and accommodating, just like the happy life state is similar, and the unfortunate relationship is different.
遇到对的人,一定是在经历了很大的伤害之后才换来的,以心换心。
If you meet the right person, you must get it after experiencing a lot of harm.
感情最残忍的地方就在于,这种潜移默化形成的东西,会变成你生活里的一部分影子,即使在你们分开很久以后,你也能感受到它的存在。可能是无意识的一句口头禅,可能是一个你以为自己早就戒掉的习惯。
The most cruel thing about feelings is that this kind of subtle formation will become a shadow in your life, even after you are separated for a long time, you can feel its existence. It may be an unconscious mantra, it may be a habit that you think you have quit long ago.
真心爱过的人,是忘不掉的,更可怕的是,以后你对谁都不感兴趣,多了一份稳重,少了一种冲动。
People who have truly loved them will never be forgotten. What is more terrifying is that in the future you will not be interested in anyone. You will have more stability and less impulse.
人生的无情和多情,总体来说,是守恒。你欠在这个人身上的,终会在另一个人身上不回来。感情是一件公平也不公平的事。
The ruthlessness and affection of life are, on the whole, conservative. What you owe to this person will eventually not return to another person. Feelings are fair and unfair.
最好的感情就是考两个人相互维护,没有什么理所应当,感恩付出,知足常乐。
The best feeling is to test the two people to maintain each other, there is no reason to be grateful, give contentment, and be content.